Originally Posted by nycindie
That is YOUR experience, but time and time again we have seen plenty of guys come here who are perfectly fine with their female partners having sex with others, and completely aghast at the thought of any emotional involvement.
I think I've seen it go equally both ways with both genders, but it's usually a definite either/or. If their ok with the emotional connection, then there's massive drama about the sex or vice versa. So while I don't think the issue is in the least gender specific, Nicothoe is probably correct in the thought process/mentality behind his example.