Originally Posted by BexyandBen
We appreciate all the well-wishes, but we're starting to wonder if we're the serious oddballs here.
It seems that the most common poly that we see here so far is polyandry, is that really the most common? Or just our sensitivity to it?
I don't know if it's most common or not. Not sure WHAT is most common. But I know while we are actively in a V with me having a husband on one side and bf on the other-my husband is actively seeking a girlfriend.
IF bf had a serious girl I would find it preferable that we have a quad. But he's self-conscious about dental work he needs done and isn't willing to pursue a relationship until that is resolved. I think a quad would be preferential though... but I'm not limiting myself to "a quad or nothing" either.
Correct me if I'm wrong-you two are hoping to create a permanent triad with another woman to your couple correct? No issue in my mind there. Ceoli was in a triad of two women 1 man recently I believe.....