Originally Posted by Mohegan
And the bed thing, you're totaly right. I think it's comfort level. I had no problem with Panda being in my bed. And as long as the sheets get changed, no issue with Cookie being there. But I didn't have that comfort level with Cricket, so I wasn't okay with her being in my bed.
It's very interesting to me the way comfort levels effect boundries and triggers.
I think sometimes gut instinct kicks in. We may not immediately recognize it and sometimes we second guess it. But I'm finding now that usually when I'm not comfortable with someone or things don't feel right there's almost alwYs a pretty good reason. I'm done with not trusting my instincts.