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Old 08-06-2011, 05:32 AM
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Originally Posted by OptionD View Post
. . . power over my woman . . .

. . . fear of other men being with my girl . . .

What you wrote was very telling. Perhaps the first most important step in letting go of your insecurities is to stop thinking of the women you date as your possessions.
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia "

An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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