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Old 08-06-2011, 05:32 AM
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Originally Posted by OptionD View Post
. . . power over my woman . . .


. . . fear of other men being with my girl . . .

What you wrote was very telling. Perhaps the first most important step in letting go of your insecurities is to stop thinking of the women you date as your possessions.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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