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Old 08-05-2011, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by SourGirl View Post
Oh, and prepare for her to be pissed-off that you fucked her, knowing you were going to leave her.
I've always thought the best way to end a relationship is one last lovemaking session to honor what people had. It can be such a beautiful thing to say goodbye like that. I am sure if they were talking about ending it and crying before hitting the sack, she wouldn't think he was just trying to fuck her or pretend it wasn't over. She might have pretended in the morning, but...

WW, next time you talk to her, I guess to break it off, you can tell her that you want her to recall the beauty and love of that last time.

So, you don't think that either your wife or gf would want to be in a polyamorous situation with you? I mean, this is a poly board and you have not mentioned whether you wanted poly or not, only that you had originally cheated.
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