Heh, I am just out of a relationship of 2 yrs duration with a man 36 years my junior. Yes, he has moved on, perhaps to a younger woman. But it was mutually satisfying for 2 years.
My gf is 22 years my junior and we have full intimacy and soul connnection. Making the age gap leap is one thing many poly/kinky people do. Even the gender leap of course. It's more about the person, and their compatibility... that can happen with age mates or with people much older or younger than oneself. IME, anyway.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 60) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 38) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (monogamish, former swinger, 42, M) since Oct 2015
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years