Beloved feels like she has to 'compete' for me sexually, even though I've told her many times she's already 'won'. She's my primary relationship; both SW and Oil Man understand and respect this. I also try my best to let her know via word and deed that she is loved and missed. We are in a LDR which complicates things because I spend more time sexually with my other lovers.
I'm hesitant to talk with her about my sexual experiences, sexual desires with my other lovers in part because I worry about causing her to feel insecure.
I am very interested in the replies to this thread. Wish I had some ideas for you!
Last edited by opalescent; 08-05-2011 at 04:58 PM.