My hubby brought this up, and I know how I feel, but maybe not how to express it, so was wondering how others deal with it.
He says he feels a lot of jealousy when he sees my desire for other people. That it doesn't make him feel as special because I don't show as much desire for him. But we already "have" each other, and have been married for 7 years.
I constantly tell him how much I love him, and appreciate him (because I do) and show as much physical affection. However since we do share our lives together, he also sees more of the negative stuff associated with monthly cycles, raising children, every day stress, so on and so forth.