Originally Posted by Mohegan
That may change. I dunno. It seems that doing it the 'right' way for the first time has as much of a learning curve as the doing it the 'wrong' way did.
Interesting isn't that? I found that this time around when hubs was starting this new relationship, he was doing everything in the right fashion, and there still were tons of things that came up-- mostly because we'd never REALLY done it the right way before.
And I think that with each new person that comes in there are new challenges or questions or communications that have to happen. I could see how with some people I wouldn't want them in my bed when I wasn't there, and with some people that wouldn't be an issue. So in a sense it seems like a lot of these little things will have to be negotiated each time, not once for everybody.