Originally Posted by vixtresses
I guess I have a hard time apologizing when I don't think what I did was inherently wrong.
My husband is exactly this way. I think he has actually said the words "I'm sorry" only 5-6 times in 19 years of marriage. He has said it alot this year and it makes a BIG BIG difference. It was a huge source of resentment, I always felt that he blamed me for every misunderstanding or issue we had and felt that he was unwilling to take any responsibility ("I was just the emotional bitch, too stupid to figure out what he really meant").