Originally Posted by opalescent
It's time to break up, move on, and let each other find others who fit better. I'm so sorry but this is a deal breaker. One should never make oneself 'less' for another person, even out of love.
Or you can continue to date her as a part time relationship and look for someone to fill the need that you have of spending the majority of your time with someone. There really isn't a need to throw away a relationship that is working in other areas.