Originally Posted by jrrmjr820
That's good to hear RC, one day at a time works best, I think even though it can be frustrating to not know where things are going.
Maybe. Or maybe learning to live each day as it comes without a plan is freeing.
I'm finding that when I thought I knew where things were going I was mistaken. We never know where they're going. If you understand and accept that, you can take twists and turns and variations a lot easier because they are just movement forward in various directions, not a diverting from the "plan".
(I say this as someone who likes the fake-security of plans but is having to learn to deal with reality instead.