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Old 08-03-2011, 10:53 PM
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. . . I have brought up the idea of going poly and forming a triad. At first I thought a V would work best but Dh is not on par with that; he doesn't like the idea of him being the focus of the relationship and would like me to have equal partnership too.
I don't understand this. Why would a vee preclude equal partnership and focus in him?
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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