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Old 08-03-2011, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by SoCalExile View Post
Oh, I agree, but I'm not sure that heading out specifically with flirting in mind is going to produce any short-term happiness.
I wasn't telling him to go out solely for the purpose of flirting -- how the hell do you get that from what I wrote? I said that he could go out and enjoy himself and the people he encounters, and to trust that if flirting happens, he can handle it. Sheesh! How does telling someone to focus on the positive get so... misconstrued? Lordy, my message has now been picked apart and watered down.
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