Yeah, I definitely felt tons of jealousy with my ex's gf, but only because she was supposed to be a unicorn, but didn't deliver.
With my gf now, 12 years later, i only feel jealousy when she breaks a boundary (accidentally, and that's only happened once), or when my needs have been neglected just because of life circumstances. We always talk about it immediately, she verbally reassures me, then fucks me, and all is well. I'm easy like that!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)
Last edited by Magdlyn; 08-03-2011 at 03:47 AM.