I called the guy I mentioned upthread, R, tonight. I got voicemail on the 2nd ring. Instead of launching into him, I just said I'd like to talk to you, please call me when you get a chance. This was at 9:30PM, so I assume he was in for the night on a worknight. I'll give him a day or two, and then call again and really speak my mind. I don't even want him at this point, but some sort of closure sure would be nice. How rude! 2 pleasant dates, talking all about our histories, families, philosophies of life, quite a bit of texting, telling me he wants to see where this is going. And the sexual thing... he's a sub and told me he wanted to worship me as a Goddess and do everything to please me. And then, and yet, nada.
Pfffff.... And he calls himself a Buddhist. Nice karma, dude!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37
Last edited by Magdlyn; 08-03-2011 at 02:25 PM.