If you have done any reading on this forum you will note that it rarely happens that a "V" situation means spending huge amounts of less time with each other. It means spending some less time sure, but the gains far outweigh the whole time issue. Really my husband cherishes the time I am not here as I am with Mono because he can get things done that I am not interested in or that he has now become interested in because he didn't have time when I was around all the time.
Let the ropes go a little and see what happens. Go with the flow and the rest will follow... it will all become evident where everyone will "sit" in your relationship with time, communication and patience with each other and yourself. One thing is for sure, there will be change if someone is added to your relationship, there is no stopping that.
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