Originally Posted by berserker239
So what your saying is..go for a 30 year old. Gotcha
Nah, that post packed a whole heap of genuine wisdom and was clearly a pure gift of authentic generosity and compassion -- wrapped in a green silk bow, just for you.
Don't let the painful learning experiences, inevitable though they are, wreck the tenderness and joy in your heart. Take the hits like a boxer, stand tall, and know that flowers grow best in compost inclusive of manure. Don't hate the manure -- what a waste of time! Use painful experiences as opportunities for insight into what is most precious in yourself and others. Don't use them to build up walls to lob bombs from within. Only because it is such a waste of good energy and time.