Hey Wolfie - so sorry it didn't work out. Your first post did seem to paint a picture of a guy who is very stubborn and set in his ways, so probably for the best. You and I are about the same age, so I am interested in your journey. I'm sure you will continue to date, and perhaps explore poly some more, so please come back and keep us posted (whether poly-related or not).
I'm another member who loves the way you write!