We spent hours working on our workshop last night. Lots came out of it that really was productive, even if we are doing a workshop. So it kind of seems to of gone from "mono/poly relationships" to really everyone is the same and we should drop the labels and view each other as having a whole set of boundaries that either work with us or don't. That was kind of the result of the night.... off I go, wish us luck
Maybe I will post what we talked on later.