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Old 07-30-2011, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted by SNeacail View Post
I'm confused, I got the impression that you were encouraging his dating and now your saying that's not the case.
Yes, I'm confused, too. You said:
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My poly was strong. I had excellent communication with my common-law partner of 10 years or so. (We'll call him C). We have three children in a blended family. I had no jealousy about him flirting or having sex with other people.
And then you stated that since your health problems, you aren't comfortable with his dating anymore but that you would rather leave or break off the engagement than tell him not to date.

Now you are saying you don't trust him anymore and have told him that. It seems you are very confused as well. What is really going on?
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