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Old 07-30-2011, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted by gspang4207 View Post
I have told my partner that I would be open to new adventures in our relationship, but it is very important to be me that we do this together and build it on trust and honesty, both of which he needs to repair with me.
Beautifully expressed. This is very open-minded and mature -- and rebuilding trust is essential.
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