Originally Posted by sage
I don't quite get who you are avoiding cheating on?
That hasn't happened for me. Yes I dealt with jealousy and insecurity and I want my partner to experience his polyamorous self. But I think I also need to experience my monogamous self and I don't know if that is truly possible with a polyamorous partner. This realisation has taken a long time to surface and I'm not ending my relationship but it is a new paradigm for me and I will have to see where it goes.
Well, what you just wrote there scares the s... out of me, being the "poly" and my husband being the 'mono" (it's awful to label us like that, too...)