"non-girlfriend"...Thats humorous. But heaven help you if she ever finds out about this board, and the last post Karma. LOL
Karma, on the issue of condoms; Trojan Magnum XXL's work well. I use the Magnum thins, which are a bit larger than other "regular condoms, but still not as large as the XXL's. Candy's last bf had to use the XXL's, and even THOSE were a tough fit.
This is all so facinating to me. You two are so much like Cotton Candy and myself it's not even funny. We are learning for you though. Keep up the good work.