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Old 07-29-2011, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted by sage View Post
But you aren't mono you're poly.
I don't think she asked for herself, but for her hub's GF, who is mono.

Originally Posted by sage View Post
The first and most basic thing that strikes me with you is that you seem to be putting your husband's and his girlfriends needs way above your own.
I concur with this. And from other comments made by the OP, I believe there may be a real issue surrounding self-esteem that is at the root of this.
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