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Old 07-29-2011, 10:00 PM
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But you aren't mono you're poly.
I don't think she asked for herself, but for her hub's GF, who is mono.

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The first and most basic thing that strikes me with you is that you seem to be putting your husband's and his girlfriends needs way above your own.
I concur with this. And from other comments made by the OP, I believe there may be a real issue surrounding self-esteem that is at the root of this.
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