Originally Posted by Macbeth
Of course, I'm worried now that my other friend, who has stated that she doesn't want to know about anyone else I may be seeing, is going to make continued and increasing demands on my time. I think a talk is most likely coming soon, and that doesn't sound fun to me.
There are some folks who might think that "polyamory" is just another way of distancing oneself from an existing marriage or "committed" relationship in preparation of transitioning out of that relationship.
Maybe your girlfriend thinks that if she holds out long enough, you'll leave your wife and other GF's to be with her only.
Just my thoughts. You seem to have a good grasp on things.