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Old 10-21-2009, 04:36 PM
bgfgirl bgfgirl is offline
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Unhappy Possibly Poly Boyfriend?

So I'm hoping that someone on here can shed some light on my situation. There is a man I've been involved with romantically for 2 and a half years now. I don't think he defines himself as being poly but he is definately not into monogamy. The whole time we have been "dating" we have both been involved with other people. I have fallen deeply in love with him and find that I only want him but he doesn't feel the same way. He doesn't want to be monogamous but he also says he loves me. I believe him when he says that but I feel like it obviously isn't the kind of deep love I have for him. I've been struggling with this for a long time. I've never really been conventional when it comes to relationships but I'm hurt that he doesn't love me enough to be with only me. I think if I am so damn special to him then why am I not the only one? If he is poly or even slightly how is it possible for him to truely love me and still want others?
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