Originally Posted by redpepper
this is so true! Good for you for working on understanding that and being able to live it because you love him!
It's a work in progress... some days it's easy, some days not so much! But I am realizing that most of the time when I'm feeling badly, it's nothing that he's done or not done, it's just those fears and insecurities acting out. So, I find ways to distract myself until I can "talk myself down".