My advice would be to be more empathetic, realize you do not know everything about there situation, stop having expectaions about any of this and see where it goes. Things don't just magically work out at the snap of your fingers because YOU want something. You have to work on it, show compassion, consideration for all and be patient.
Frankly your post shows no sign of concern for her at all or patience enough to be involved with a process that might well create a beautifui relationship if you choose to engage in it. Besides, what's wrong with a vee where you date him and find yourself a girlfriend?
Try doing a tag search for "foundations" and "lessons" and read around here a bit. There are many poly configurations you could opts for if you decide not to program one in and just go where it leads you.
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Last edited by redpepper; 07-29-2011 at 06:40 PM.