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Old 07-29-2011, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted by dingedheart View Post
What about " cutters" I don't know the medical term or the pc term ...but people ...mostly women who cut themselves or perhaps have others cut do it for them? ...done to feel good, feel the pain. How would you assist a love one in doing this?
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Piercing, branding, stapling, or artistically cutting a lover is a fetish some kinksters get into. It's usually seen as outright therapeutic, sexy and loving, and not quite in the same league as people who self mutilate. It's a form of intimacy and sharing. Self cutters usually do it in secret to numb emotional pain.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

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