Originally Posted by spaz6979
We want to treat her as though christy and I are a single person looking for love! ...
Welllll, but you're not, though. You're two distinct individuals with personal needs and preferences that can never entirely match up. The Other Woman won't see you as one person, but as two people with unique personalities, bodies, pasts, extended families (heck, even identical twins each have unique personalities, hobbies, rates of growth, communication styles, physical and emotional energy and strength, different friends with whom they share different experiences, etc). Your dream woman/unicorn will have to forge independent relationships with 2 individuals. One with, like, a penis and broad shoulders, one with a vagina and curves, one loaded with testosterone, one with estrogen and progesterone.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
A standing prick hath no conscience. --Bill Shakespeare
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 60, poly-dating, and loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, poly, 38