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Old 07-28-2011, 06:12 PM
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You need to tell him that you aren't comfortable with poly anymore, or for now. It wouldn't be the first time a poly couple took a break from it to handle important life circumstances. Talking to him would support your well-being, and his. Come clean!
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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