I know when I get frustrated it is hard for me not to get defensive. When the conversation(if you can call it that) ends abruptly with, "Yep your right I'm wrong" when I didn't even mean to make it sound that way It hurts. I know it is both of us and we used to be able to talk about anything. I think what hurts the most is that I don't feel like we are best friends any more.
Today I told him that I will miss him when I start working 60+ hours. The response I got was a frowney face and I don't know why you miss me so much all I do is make you upset of mad. Now I'm not sure what would have sounded better to me but that just made me feel like crap. Made me feel guilty when all i was looking for was love.