There is no shame in not getting over something from your last relationship. Humans are emotional beings and not as thick skinned as we like to think we are. Talk to them. If this is a full fledged relationship/partnership then complete honesty and openness is necessary in order to make your self vulnerable to the situation.
There is a video link I posted here once about the importance of vulnerability. Brene brown is the speaker in the video. She is excellent on this topic. Ted talks search for her name.
I don't think you have to do all this now. Pacing yourself is totally acceptable. After all, its only been a few dates.
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Last edited by redpepper; 07-28-2011 at 04:26 PM.