I don't think I'd want to be living in that situation.
Best of luck with keeping the in-laws happy (or at least quiet) till the move. At least you'll have a fresh start in NM.
Of course he still could talk to her all the same and just not mention that the friend is a girl. "I've got friends I'm not going to get to see much after the move to NM..." but it doesn't sound from what you've said that that would go over much better.
Good luck to you.
Male, married, new here, not quite poly. (but poly curious)
Last edited by Hardison; 07-28-2011 at 05:46 AM.