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Old 07-27-2011, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted by paschendale View Post
That's good advice. I suspect however that even if my boyfriend stopped asking her to renew their relationship, she would continue to flirt with him.
It's really simple - he would then have to tell her to stop that because it makes him uncomfortable, and physically pull away when she tries flirting and holding his hand. As long as he's wishy-washy about it, she won't stop.
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