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Old 07-27-2011, 03:54 PM
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Great advice from closetpoly. Really looking inward is the best bet. I'm curious as to why you said they aren't allowed to say "I love you?" Firstly I have a hard time with others telling their partners the "aren't allowed" to do something. Making a request that they go at your pace and respect you are struggling I get, but to put rules down rather than discussing boundaries seems counter productive as there is no room to breath. Secondly I'm wondering why love is a threat.

You might want to do a search in the tags for "boundaries" "lessons" "foundations." The latter might give you a heads up on making it work.
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