Surely any group you find will have at least bisexual and pansexual women and men in it? The diversity abounds in poly groups as far as I have noticed. If you can't find a group near you, putting the word out and make your own. You could meet at a quiet and private coffee shop or something to see who shows up who's like minded. Really that's the most important part first and foremost no? That you meet poly people? Its usually then that the dating pool expands and friendships grow.
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