Originally Posted by 1stTime4Everything
...it is another reason that is causing me to struggle with this, for fear that any woman i try to explore with or build a relationship with will not want to in return....i guess that comes with this whole process tho?
There are plenty of genuine lesbian/bisexual poly women out there, you just have to look hard
. I often struggle with the same issue - not knowing if a woman is only "bisexual" but actually biamorous also. Try some poly dating sites when you eventually feel ready - people there are usually rather upfront about what they are looking for.
And again, you increase your chances if you seek independent relationships rather than a third. They don't call them unicorns for nothing.