We decided not to meet up with the guy that's been emailing me. J and I talked and we both came to the conclusion that we are just uncomfortable with meeting up with some random guy from online. J is very protective of me and really worries that another guy would cause me more pain during sex, without realizing that he's doing it, or that he just wouldn't care.
But, it looks like we are going to connect with a poly group here on the 4th for a free concert in the area. So, we're looking forward to that!! We are also taking a date night this Thursday. We're thinking dinner and a movie. There's a steak house nearby that he wants to try before we move away 'cause he's heard great things about it.
Married 12 1/2 years. Female. Straight. New to poly.