Well, I'm not sure things are going to go poly with our friend that has been thinking about it. She hasn't said no. Actually, she hasn't said anything either way about joining us. But, she and J were talking the other day and he asked her if she had ever thought of him that way. She said that she hadn't. She has always just thought of him as a good friend, fun guy, and someone that she can talk to about anything, but that's it. So, we've pretty much dropped the conversation of polly, although he does flirt with her a bit. Maybe she'll think of him like that later, but right now, we're all still really good friends and that's it.
On the note of the guy that wants to meet up with us for some fun. He's still emailing me and really wants for this to happen. I'm going to talk to J tomorrow after he's had some sleep (he works nights) and this could possibly be happening either Monday or Tuesday. So nervous but also pretty excited! This guy is in town on business once a month for a few days, so he stays at a hotel. We'd meet him there and he said that we can start out in the hotel jacuzzi to ease the nervousness of the situation and get comfortable with one another before we head to the room. This sounds like a great idea to me!! Because as nervous as I am now, I can only imagine what I would be like when we got there lol.
Married 12 1/2 years. Female. Straight. New to poly.