Originally Posted by Jade
She loves you and G, but is different from you and G. She has different priorities, different life circumstances, and probably a different outlook. Otherwise you might not be so magically drawn to her. She expresses herself in different ways. Do you love her? Then learn Her. Be patient with her. Give her the space she needs to love you back in a way that she feels comfortable with. You may decide, over time, that it's not enough. If that's the case, it's okay, but it wouldn't be her fault. It would just be incompatibility.
This was well said.
There's nothing guaranteed to sabotage a relationship better than selfishness and neediness ! Despite what a lot of people think (mho) love isn't about specifications or design and can't be created or maintained that way. It's just something that flows like water - either towards us or away from us.
If you "need" more you may "need" to look elsewhere