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Old 07-23-2011, 02:39 AM
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So, basically, you want to break it off because you don't talk to her for a few days? You really think that not talking for five days means she doesn't love you? I'm just not understanding why you need communication to be so frequent. I understand wanting to talk on the phone regularly, but every other day? And it must be a conversation of at least 20 minutes for you to feel like there's something there? Her texting you every day isn't enough to let you know she's thinking of you? And you say you are at your wit's end over this. Hmm. Is there something else underneath all this? It seems a bit extreme or needy to me.
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