Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Of another concern is your rule number 6. It's easy to say either one of you can say stop (essentially a veto power) but what about the other human being's heart involved? I'm not slagging you but this type of rule makes anyone who comes into your life seem more of a casual play thing than a person. I guess as long as you are upfront about this rule and any potential partner is also good with it then it's fine, but if it is not something they are aware of you are somewhat deceiving them.
Thank you for your response.
We make sure that all potential secondaries know what our rules for each other are and that those rules should be respected. We are not deceiving any of them.