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Old 10-20-2009, 06:15 PM
PatientPaws PatientPaws is offline
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Default Engaged, But Loving Someone Else...

This all happened quite quickly for me, I've always been open with my relationships, I form close bonds quickly with people-- but never like this.

I'm engaged to my boyfriend of six years, and this past month I've met someone who has turned my world on its head. I truly, whole heartedly love both of them, but there is no way my fiance would accept this.

For the longest time I felt wrong for having feelings for another man, disgusted with myself because its not the "norm", but I've accepted who I am-- my real concern is how to get others-- including my fiance-- to accept it too.

I would love to continue both relationships, but I dont know if its possible. Advice?
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