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Old 07-22-2011, 01:24 AM
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. . . I don't automatically tie life long commitments with the idea of monogamy. I see monogamy as "only forming a connection with one person at a time".
I was thinking the same thing! Monogamy doesn't automatically mean "forever." It just means one at a time. A forever/life-long relationship can be either poly or mono, and monogamy can be either life-long, or not. What does one have to do with the other?
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