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Old 10-20-2009, 05:08 AM
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Well part of why in my opinion is that it would help alleviate some of exactly what you wrote you are stuggling with.
If you know the person and have a friendship with them yourself it's easier to not imagine that they are replacing you or trying to usurp your position in your significant others life.

I understand the theory that if you don't want to date them you don't need to know them, but the reality of that is-you don't KNOW what the situation is which lends itself to jealousy of non-existant issues and insecurites and fears and....

You get the picture.
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