I just noticed the mods moved this thread to the "New to Polyamory" forum. I am not sure why - I suppose it wasn't clear what I meant by...
Originally Posted by JT2
My partner (of 10 years) has a wife (17 years).
Regardless, none of us are new to polyamory. This isn't the first poly relationship for any of us. Husband & Wife have been poly for the entirety of their 17 year marriage. Both were experienced at poly prior to getting together, and have both had quite a few secondary lovers prior to me, including some serious live-in relationships. I had a five year poly relationship prior to this, including living in a triad, and I've been living with Husband & Wife for close to 10 years.