Originally Posted by nycindie
Plus, getting rid of the physical stuff in my apartment is exhausting and I keep taking breaks, so it feels like I'm getting nowhere - but I want to wipe the slate clean in a lot of ways and get rid of stuff here that reminds me of the marriage.
Pick a small area, closet, cabinet, etc. and just concentrate only on that spot. Take a picture before and then after. Don't wander around the apt looking for ex's stuff, or moving things from one spot to another. Have a few boxes near by labled for different rooms and toss stuff that needs to be moved into the boxes (sort later). I like to start in the bathroom, because the space is small and it collects a lot of crap that can be easily tossed