I agree, no one should throw their feelings at another, but it does happen. It takes practice to be considerate, caring and thoughtful when it comes to hard emotions, but it is necessary as it is respectful. No one deserves to be blown up at no matter how hurt and jealous they are feeling. I don't see any reason why you can't put your foot down about that and be firm with a request to simmer down before coming and talking rationally and in a calm tone about whatever the situation is. Practice of this should I help I think.
What is she jealous of? She has her cake, what is it about you having yours that bugs? Or is she just being hypocritical and doing the possessiveness thing?
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